I want to ask how you like to be shown affection.

On a rainy day by the window, I remember the things they’ve done for me, but sometimes I can’t say how I’d like them to show their affection.

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I want to ask what kinds of affection you like. — On a rainy day by the window, I remember the things they’ve done for me, but I can’t say how I’d like them to show their affection.
We Can Care in Different Ways — One person may take care of practical things, while the other waits for kind words. When we show affection differently, we may not notice it even when it’s there.
Name the Action You’d Like — In a conversation about closeness, it’s easier to answer a specific request like “I’d love a hug when we say goodbye” than “Treat me better.”
Talk About One Small Moment — Tonight, think of one thing you’ve appreciated lately and say what they did that felt good. Hearing each other’s answers can help you see how differently you show affection.
You Don’t Have to Get It Right at Once — Even if bringing up what you’d like ends awkwardly, one conversation can’t tell you everything about each other’s feelings. You can talk again about what felt comfortable.