It’s hard to tell my parents I’m getting counseling.
Before falling asleep, I revise the words over and over under the covers, wondering how to tell my parents I’m getting counseling.
Scenes
- It’s hard to tell my parents I’m getting counseling. — After I turn out the light, I keep revising what to say to my parents, then fall asleep without saying anything.
- I’m afraid they’ll worry as soon as I tell them. — I imagine my parents asking what’s wrong, so I prepare words to reassure them that I’m okay.
- I prepare my answers alone, too. — Worried my parents will worry, I work out alone why I’m getting counseling and how to tell them I’m okay.
- I take on both explaining and reassuring them. — Adding reasons and reassurance to what I’ll tell my parents makes it harder to say the first sentence.
- Tonight, choose just the first sentence. — Read the words “I’m getting counseling” to yourself. You don’t need to add a reason or explanation.
- You can think about their reaction afterward. — For today, choosing just the first sentence is enough. You can hear what your parents have to say after you tell them.
Stories by Cheongun
- Cheongun
- At lunch, I want to choose my child’s career path for them.
- When I step out after washing and stand before the mirror, the comparisons in my family come back to me.
- After the meeting, the plans and the spur-of-the-moment ideas clash again.
- When we get home from work, the first thing we talk about at the door is caring for our parents.
- As we left the exam room, Mom asked first.
- We put off the decision again while doing the dishes
- I set aside money for my younger sibling from my first paycheck
- I gave them flowers, but they didn’t say thank you