After the funeral, they ask when the bereaved family’s home will be empty

After leaving the funeral home, a message appears in the group chat asking for the bereaved family’s address and when the house will be empty.

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  • After the funeral, a request comes through the group chat — On the night they leave the funeral home, a message appears in the group chat asking for the bereaved family’s address and when the house will be empty.
  • Refusing may make me seem rude — It is hard to pass the information along right away because the request comes from someone who attended the condolence visit with me, and I hesitate over whom to ask first.
  • That information belongs to the bereaved family — The bereaved family’s address and the times their home will be empty are information the people living there must decide about first, before matters of condolence etiquette.
  • Comfort and whereabouts should be considered separately — A safety boundary does not guess what the person asking intends. It first checks whose information it is, then decides what can be shared.
  • Write down whose information it is first — Before replying, try writing in one line whose information you were asked to share. If it is not yours, start by considering not passing it along.
  • Advice is not the same as opening someone else’s door for them — Even if the requests continue, Suho wants to distinguish between what the other person needs to confirm directly and where I need to stop.

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