Monday morning, I start to bring up putting both our names on the paperwork, then stop.

After hearing the suggestion that we put both our names on it, I’m still unsure how to bring it up on Monday morning.

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I start to bring up putting both our names on the paperwork, then stop. — Monday morning, I’m unsure how to bring up putting both our names on the paperwork. I’m worried that a paperwork decision could change our relationship, too.
Putting both names on it — Putting both names on the paperwork means sharing responsibility, too. Check the documents and talk through who will take on what.
Relationship worries and paperwork responsibilities — When I review the risks, I separate worries from facts to check. Worrying that the relationship might change is a different matter from the responsibilities listed in the paperwork.
Just one thing you don’t know yet — Tonight, write down one item in the paperwork you haven’t checked yet. Checking it can give you a starting point for separating worries from responsibilities.
What would you like to know first? — Write down what you’d like to check first about putting both names on the paperwork. It can help you look at the relationship and the paperwork separately. You don’t have to choose a path all at once.