I go to ask for a favor, then swallow my words in the elevator
I want to ask for help, but when I’m alone in the elevator, I worry I’ll seem like I’m making a fuss, so I keep quiet.
Scenes
- I go quiet when I’m about to ask — I want to ask for help, but when I’m alone in the elevator, I worry I’ll seem like I’m making a fuss, so I swallow my words.
- It Stays After the Doors Close — Only after the elevator doors close do I realize I wanted to ask someone for help today.
- I tie asking to my worth — When I hesitate to ask, “Can’t I even handle this alone?” makes me feel smaller than the need itself.
- Write Down What You Need — Tonight, write one thing you need on paper. You can decide whether to ask after you’ve written it.
- Asking Doesn’t Change Your Worth — A request is a way to say what you need. Asking doesn’t change your worth.
Stories by Dalbit
- Dalbit
- I wait for my husband to say something first, right here in front of the mirror.
- It’s a day off, but evening comes and I haven’t done a thing.
- Even after the interview, I can’t find the words with Mom.
- My partner’s judgment follows me into lunch
- I can’t think of anyone to call when I’m sick.
- On payday, it feels like I got less than my fair share.
- When dinner with my coworkers ends, I think of the path my parents chose for me.
- When I close the door after work, I can’t think of anyone to reach out to.