Before you tap “I’ll take it” at lunchtime
While you eat lunch alone, a message appears in the group chat asking you to run things next month.
Scenes
- Before you say you’ll take it — When a message appears in the group chat asking you to run things next month, even lunch alone suddenly becomes decision time.
- I’d feel bad saying no. — Instead of saying it feels like too much, you worry first that things will fall apart if you’re the only one who steps out.
- The day you left the reply window open for a long time — Until lunch is nearly over, you keep going back and forth about whether to accept, without asking what the terms are.
- What to look at first — Look at a choice by whether you can undo it, not by how willing you are to help. Break down the duration, how you could step away, and what would happen if you did.
- Just three lines before replying — Don’t say you’ll take it right away. Ask how long it lasts and what it involves. Once the unknowns shrink, your answer may change.
- Putting it off isn’t avoidance — If you’re still hesitating after checking the terms, perhaps the choice still hasn’t taken a shape you can handle.
Stories by Haewol
- Haewol
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