It was true, but I’ve been trying to take it back all morning.
While getting ready for work, I told my family the truth, but now I’m uneasy, as if I’d dismissed what they said.
Scenes
- I know it was true, but I want to take it back. — While getting ready for work, I corrected something my family said because it wasn’t true. But now I’m uneasy, as if I’d dismissed them, and I keep replaying that conversation from this morning.
- When only the mistake stood out — They were trying to finish their story, but I pointed out the mistake first. I may have been right, but the conversation could still stop there.
- Facts and feelings are different stones — In a conversation, correcting the facts and acknowledging what someone said are two separate things. Start with, “That’s how it sounded to you,” and there’s still time to share the facts.
- Try starting with one different phrase today — If a similar conversation comes to mind tonight, try writing, “That’s how it sounded to you.” After reading it, see if you still want to add the facts.
- Before asking who was right, what was said? — The fact that you corrected them and the feeling that you may have dismissed them can stay with you together. Next time, you can take a moment to see which words you want to start with.
Stories by Baekho
- Baekho
- Once I’ve put my child to bed, everything I need to do tomorrow comes rushing to mind.
- On the first night after the move, Mom objected.
- When the meeting ends, “I’m fine” is the first thing I say.
- I want to say how it was, not just “It was totally fine.”
- After the holiday, I count what I’ll earn after quitting at the table.
- Even on a night away alone, I keep thinking about my team member’s performance.
- They say it’s a joke, but even after the funeral, I can’t just let it go.
- Asking why in front of the mirror