When I wake before dawn, I start doubting my whole day

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• My eyes are open, but I start to feel small — When sleep breaks, everything I didn’t get done today and everything I’m worried about tomorrow comes rushing in. I blame myself before I think about sleep.
• What if not sleeping proves something about me? — Worrying that morning will be ruined, I start measuring even the hours I slept as if they determine my worth. The thought grows clearer.
• I turn my phone over, then look again — At four in the morning, I wake up, check my phone, and look at the time. Even after placing it face down, my hand reaches back toward it.
• At night, thoughts cling like facts — Self-esteem doesn’t only waver during the day. At night, with fewer things to check, a thought that comes to mind grows until it feels like it explains who I am.
• Instead of counting thoughts, count what you can feel — If you wake again, don’t calculate the time. For a moment, notice only your head against the pillow and the weight of the blanket. It’s practice for returning to where your body is, even while thoughts remain.
• One night’s thoughts are not all of me — You may not fall back asleep right away that night. Still, you don’t have to let one sentence that came to mind before dawn speak for your heart all day.